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Archive for October, 2013

I Want To Start 2014 With A Porn Show

Team 2012

Team 2012

If all goes as I would hope it to, I will be starting 2014 by attending a porn show for the 5th year in a row. For the past 4 years I have lead a team with xxxChurch  to the Naught But Nice Sex Show in Vancouver. We have given out over 12,000 Bibles that tell people Jesus Loves Porn Stars.

It’s the message we bring to the over 50,000 entrants, vendors and entertainers at the show: regardless of your connection to pornography, Jesus loves you. Every year lives change, including mine.

I have formed life long friendships – and I am not talking about just our team members. I have met some incredible people and some really inspire me. I love to hear each persons story of how they ended up at the show or connected to the show, and I cherish my time spent with them – on the show floor or after.

Time is moving fast and all the things we need are not yet in place to be able to have the outreach for next year. We need a minimum of 10 committed team members who are willing to sacrifice a weekend and their comfort  level to love people who need it. We need to raise a budget of $12,000.

If your reading this will you pray with me that all these things come together? Will you ask God if there is something more he would have you do to support us.


Five Bucks

I have a friend named Dave Dalley. He has given my kids and I the opportunity to get to know people of other faiths and also talk about what they believe and why. He often spearheads some really cool projects to bring people together and/or help people.

The latest initiative is that they had donors give $5 bills that they put in envelopes and left around the city. They then left a message with the money asking whoever found it to spend the money according to their values and beliefs. They also asked for the founder to write them back and tell them how they spent it.

The first founder wrote back today and here is what they said, “I went to the library to pick up a book on self compassion! 

I was delighted to find the 5 dollars and I will be holdin on to it for a little while just so I can appreciate it that much more!

Once I am ready to spend it it will either go towards a yoga class or a nice cup of tea at a coffee shop! Thank you!”

It’s amazing how small things can make such a big impact. It was, after all $5. It’s not like we paid her bills or cleaned her house. What’s important is the thought behind it. Someone was thinking of you, even though they didn’t know you, and did something about it. Thought seriously counts!

Is everyone who gets the $5 going to be as impacted, probably not – but does it matter? What matters is that the effort was made and chances are high that when you do something like this people are impacted, even if you never know about it.

Christians should be front of the line in these kinds of things. Showing kindness and loving others is what Jesus modeled for us. I just see people get so busy with all their churchy activities they miss opportunities right in front of them. Alternatively people give their tithes to the church and expect the church to do something with it. They give themselves a pat on the back that they did their part, but hold on: if you claim to have Jesus as your Savior then YOU ARE THE CHURCH.

You don’t get to hand things over to leaders in the church and let them take over. I don’t see Jesus saying, “ok God you do it all and I’ll just give you a cut of what I have, then I can go and enjoy the church social with all my friends.”

Sometimes we get intimidated because we see these leaders who are running massive organizations of outreach and think, “I could never do that.” Well that’s totally fine. Your probably not supposed to do that.

Even if you were, it would still have to start with $5.