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Archive for February, 2019

A night of heaven

Last Friday my son and I got into our formal gear and went to one of the best parties I have ever been to in my life. It was Night to Shine, sponsored by the Tim Tebow Foundation, a celebration night for people with special needs. We volunteered to be buddies to one of the 125 guests who came to be recognized and honored. My guest was a wonderful gentleman who came last year (this was year two at this church) and my son was with a young man who came for the first time. We went on limo rides, sang karaoke, had snacks, danced our hearts out and then had a crowning ceremony for our guests to be the kings and queens for the night. The mood was electric right from the start. The volunteers were excited to be there and waited eagerly for the guests to arrive. When they did, they walked down the red carpet to our cheers, a photographer, and videographer. You could immediately see that they felt special. I felt honored to be there and be a part of making them feel that way.

My guest and I hit the dance floor first and after one song he said to me, “you’re beautiful.” So simple, so honest, and coming from him it made me feel like a million dollars. I was super impressed with the dance skills of some of our guests with downsyndrome. They were amazing! We had fun at the photo booth even if we couldn’t get the timing quite right, it lead to lots of laughs. We sang to Aladdin and Elvis Prestley.

After my guest went home for the night I stood with the mom of my sons guest. My son and her son were still on the dance floor because her son didn’t want to leave – I don’t think mine did either. She said she was so happy they came. She said it was a night where her son didn’t stand out.

I looked around and realized that no one stood out. Everyone was there to have fun. No one cared what you were wearing, how you danced, or who you were outside of those walls.  There were politicians, police officers, pastors, moms, teenagers, and people from all walks of life, but it didn’t matter. We all felt accepted and free.

I am convinced that’s what heaven will be like.

I can’t wait for another night of heaven next year to party with the most amazing people.

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Is that what you want?

Do you really want something if your not willing to take any steps to make it happen?

If you look in the mirror and say, I want to lose ten pounds, but still eat the same and don’t exercise – then do you really want that or do you want the idea of it? Maybe you say you want it but if your not willing to do the work it takes to get there, then do you really want it??

Maybe you just like to talk about wanting it. Maybe your stuck in the dream stage. One of my core values is vision so I love to dream. I love to imagine -what if this could be? I feel very blessed that another of my core values is passion because it puts feet to my dreams. It moves me forward. I don’t want to just dream about one day, I need to see action to make it happen. It actually betrays who I was made to be to just talk but not move forward.

My overarching value is wisdom so I am a strong believer in strategic planning and moving forward with purpose – but still moving forward. I really don’t like to wait. There are times to wait, but too many use that to stall. I’m sorry but your actions (or inaction) is speaking so loud I can’t hear you. What you are doing, or not doing, says more to me than your words.

You can tell me what you want, but I will know by what I see.